Under the 2005 amendments to the bankruptcy code, a debtor may only file for chapter 7 bankruptcy every 8 years. However, if there is any indication that a debtor is taking advantage of the bankruptcy system, the United State's Trustee's Office may investigate the particular case filing for "bad faith."
This is an important aspect to consider in any bankruptcy case, and it is one of the first issues that I look at for each of my new cases.
Monday, November 28, 2011
The Value of Mediation
Abraham Lincoln once said:
"Discourage litigation. Persuade your neighbors to compromise whenever you can. Point out to them how the nominal winner is often a real loser—in fees, expense and waste of time.”
In my experience with both divorce and child custody litigation, I have found this statement to be true, with very few exceptions. Most often, I find that both litigants are unhappy with the trial court's decision, and all this after spending thousands of dollars in legal fees! This is because each party is so focused on who is right that they miss out on the many alternatives that could accommodate both parties wishes and desires.
Case in point: I recently completed a contested custody trial in which both parties argued vigorously for their proposed custody arrangement. In the end, the judge gave neither party what they wanted, and instead found a middle ground that is unlikely to avoid future conflicts. I suspect that within a year or two, each will find themselves back in litigation. In another recent case, I met with the parties prior to any formal court proceedings, and we agreed to come up with a solution that met most, if not all, the criteria of the parties. Whenever we reached a point of impasse, in which neither party was willing to budge, we explored alternatives that neither had previously thought of, but which seemed to work. In the end, both parties were pleased with the result and were optimistic about their future co-parenting. And, unlike the first couple who chose to fight their differences out in court, the couple who chose to mediate have established a long-term forum in which future disputes can be resolved in a quick and cost-effective manner!
Principle always triumphs over passion!
"Discourage litigation. Persuade your neighbors to compromise whenever you can. Point out to them how the nominal winner is often a real loser—in fees, expense and waste of time.”
In my experience with both divorce and child custody litigation, I have found this statement to be true, with very few exceptions. Most often, I find that both litigants are unhappy with the trial court's decision, and all this after spending thousands of dollars in legal fees! This is because each party is so focused on who is right that they miss out on the many alternatives that could accommodate both parties wishes and desires.
Case in point: I recently completed a contested custody trial in which both parties argued vigorously for their proposed custody arrangement. In the end, the judge gave neither party what they wanted, and instead found a middle ground that is unlikely to avoid future conflicts. I suspect that within a year or two, each will find themselves back in litigation. In another recent case, I met with the parties prior to any formal court proceedings, and we agreed to come up with a solution that met most, if not all, the criteria of the parties. Whenever we reached a point of impasse, in which neither party was willing to budge, we explored alternatives that neither had previously thought of, but which seemed to work. In the end, both parties were pleased with the result and were optimistic about their future co-parenting. And, unlike the first couple who chose to fight their differences out in court, the couple who chose to mediate have established a long-term forum in which future disputes can be resolved in a quick and cost-effective manner!
Principle always triumphs over passion!
Monday, September 12, 2011
Is Bankrupty Right for Me?
One of the most difficult questions I see for individuals and families who are struggling financially is how or when to file for bankruptcy. I find that there simply is no substitute for an individual analysis of your particular situation. There are many factors to consider, including not only solvency, but also property ownership, debt levels, ability to repay, exemption planning, precluding/disqualifying issues, and a variety of other factors that combine to give you a reliable basis on which to make your decision.
Divorce Counseling
In recent months, I have developed an area of my practice specifically devoted to giving legal counsel to those couples contemplating divorce. I find that many of the pre-divorce perceptions and expectations by my clients are often difficult, if not impossible, to meet, and that is because there are rarely any real winners in a divorce (of course, there are cases in which divorce is necessary, such as with spousal abuse, and these cases are the exception). My goal is to help those who are contemplating divorce explore some of the legal and practical realities of splitting up their marriage and family, such as financial hardship (and often bankruptcy), custody disputes, legal fees, emotional trauma to the children, and many unsavory aspects of court litigation.
If you, or someone you know, is contemplating divorce, give me a call and let's talk it over. You may be surprised to find that the grass can often be quite brown on the other side of your marriage fence!
If you, or someone you know, is contemplating divorce, give me a call and let's talk it over. You may be surprised to find that the grass can often be quite brown on the other side of your marriage fence!
Welcome!
Welcome to my blogspot! My goal is to create a site that is not only informative but that also inspires and lifts the reader's views to a more elevated veiw of the law.
I am a firm believer that true principles are a sure guide, even in the most uncertain situations. In law, it is no different. Principles such as Honesty, Integrity, Humility, Generosity, Kindness, and Sincerity of Purpose can help not only attorneys, but also their clients as they seek to resolve their diffuculties through the legal process.
I find that even in the most hostile of situations that principle centered actions always produce the best results. My focus as a lawyer is to help people find innovative solutions to their problems by taking a principled centered approach, thus opening possibilities that would otherwise be lost to them.
A Lawyer's true contribution lies not in his ability to argue, but in his ability to reason, and true reason must be based on true principles if the solutions are to endure.
Please feel free to comment/post/contact me with any questions or ideas. I look forward to your readership!
I am a firm believer that true principles are a sure guide, even in the most uncertain situations. In law, it is no different. Principles such as Honesty, Integrity, Humility, Generosity, Kindness, and Sincerity of Purpose can help not only attorneys, but also their clients as they seek to resolve their diffuculties through the legal process.
I find that even in the most hostile of situations that principle centered actions always produce the best results. My focus as a lawyer is to help people find innovative solutions to their problems by taking a principled centered approach, thus opening possibilities that would otherwise be lost to them.
A Lawyer's true contribution lies not in his ability to argue, but in his ability to reason, and true reason must be based on true principles if the solutions are to endure.
Please feel free to comment/post/contact me with any questions or ideas. I look forward to your readership!
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